What is All or Nothing Thinking?

I spend a lot of time with my dance students and Dance Strong Challengers talking about something called “All or Nothing Thinking.”

In short, All or Nothing thinking is when we think that if something can’t be done perfectly, it isn’t worth doing.

Read on to learn more about All or Nothing Thinking and how I combat it in dance (and life). 

Wanna learn more? Check out my latest podcast episode here!

Read on to learn more about All or Nothing Thinking and how I combat it in dance (and life).

Wanna learn more? Check out my latest podcast episode here!

How do I identify All or Nothing Thinking?

You might be thinking “Well, I’m not a perfectionist.” (Or perhaps you are!). But All or Nothing thinking can be sneaky. 

All or Nothing Thinking in Dance Can Look like:

  • Not choosing to do your dance practice because you’ve “only” got 10 minutes and that doesn’t feel “worth it”
  • Focusing on the one, single mistake you made during a performance, rather than all of the audience cheers and compliments you received after
  • Not placing on the podium during a dance competition, so determining your performance and preparation a failure
  • Deciding not to watch a pre-recorded class because it’s 60 minutes long and you’ve only got 30 minutes to practice

Do you recognise any of these in yourself?

Combatting All or Nothing Thinking

I’ve been keenly aware of all or nothing thinking in the past 7 or so years, and I’ve worked hard to combat it. But it still sneaks up on me sometimes – which is why I need these reminders too!

The most recent occurrence I remember was when I’d had a super busy work week. I was working until 9pm at night, but I’d planned to go for a 10 kilometre run that evening. I caught myself thinking “well, now I can’t go for that run.” Because I’ve gotten quite good at catching this style of thinking, I realised what was happening! And I went for a 3 kilometre run instead.

Was it what I’d planned in my training schedule? Nope!

Did it still do me good, both physically and mentally? You betcha!

Did it mean that I was closer to my weekly training goals, and therefore better prepared for the next training session than if I hadn’t run at all? Absolutely!

If you’d like to learn a little bit more about my approach to combatting all or nothing thinking, check out my new podcast episode which launched today! 

Listen to the episode here or click the button below.

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Hi dancers!

I have some gifts and prize draws to share with you!!

First up: Win some zills (finger cymbals!) from Turquoise International!!

Yes, the cat’s out of the bag: The Bellydance Bundle is back this year! 

Every year Turquoise International is SUPER generous and they offer some of their high-quality zills for us to give away. It is totally free to enter, and 4 Winners will take home 5 pairs of Turquoise International Zills!

You can enter here for a chance to win. I have a couple of Turquoise zills myself (the itsy bitsies – great for practising at home – and some larger ones) and I love them!

And yes, everyone can enter – it’s a worldwide competition!

Plus, this amazing practice resource is back: Figuring Out What to Practice. This is a great guide to revisit at different points in your dance journey – if you’ve done it before it can be really interesting to see what’s changed now!

If you ever struggle to know WHAT you should practice, I’ll highly recommend you grab this free guide – Figuring Out What to Practice.

It’s got an easy to fill out worksheet (it’ll take you only 5-10 mins!) and you’ll know what to focus on in your upcoming sessions. 

Get your practice guide here and get started!

Enjoy – and good luck in the finger cymbal competition!

Shimmies,

Siobhan Camille

P.S. I’m also offering a free live online Dance Strong Class next week! You’re already on my mailing list, so you’ll get the link 🙂 Got a friend who might like to join? Tell them to sign up here.

P.P.S. Don’t forget, my new online series with the one and only Issam Houshan starts this Sunday! Details here.

Looking to get your isolations sharper, your figure eights and circles smoother, and your quality of movement crisper and cleaner? It’s all about practice! However, the way we practice can have an effect on what we get out of that practice. Mindful drilling trumps mindless drilling, so here are three tips to strengthen your belly dance isolations!

1. Know what you’re moving, and how you’re moving it

Hip locks. Well, we’re moving the hips right? Sure, but what’s the driving force behind that movement? We know we need to alternate straightening and bending the knees, so have you taken the time to notice if one leg is working more than the other?

First, start noticing what your default pattern is. Film yourself and watch it back, or ask your teacher or mentor to help you identify what’s driving your movement.

Then, it’s time to get a little nerdy. What muscles can you choose to activate a little more to emphasise the hip lift? (Side note: Muscles are always working – there’s no such thing as a skeletal movement, so here it’s more about what you’re actively choosing to contract a bit harder for emphasis!)

Are you feeling contractions in your glutes (butt muscles) or obliques (side abdominals)? You may be choosing to contract (or unconsciously using) one muscle group more than another. I cover some of the ways I use my obliques for hip movements in the free tutorial below on Bigger Hip Shimmies, and I also have an an exclusive video on improving Oblique Strength for Stronger Hipwork just for my newsletter subscribers.

It’s really helpful to learn what muscles could be driving the movement, and get an understanding of how privileging one muscle group over another could change the movement quality of that isolation.

I cover some of the ways I use my obliques for hip movements in this free tutorial on Bigger Hip Shimmies

2. Strengthen those muscles!

We’ve gotten nerdy, we’ve started to think about the muscles involved! Now what? Easy – strengthen those muscles. Interested in how you can get your obliques to play a part in increasing the size of your hip lifts and drops? Start strengthening them. Plus, there’s the added bonus of a decreased injury risk when our muscles are stronger.

(Don’t know where to start with strength training for raqs sharqi and fusion dancers? Siobhan offers the Dance Strong Challenge several times a year!).

3. Slooooooooow it down…

…. Then speed it up, but don’t cheat! Slowing down an isolation can help you to feel and see the “sticky” parts. When you take your hip circle, maya, or hip lock at a slower speed, you’ll be more able to see differences in size and symmetry. If you’re more aware of these differences, you’ll be more able to work on them. When we’re learning or perfecting a skill our brain has to be involved in doing the work. So slow it down, notice what you want to change, give your brain time to process, and keep at it. When you’re ready, increase the speed. Find where you’re comfortable, then get to that “sweet spot” that’s just out of reach – when you’re not flailing and getting too frustrated, but where you’ve gotta work and reach to get and keep that technique strong and even! Playing with speed is not only a good way to identify how we can improve our quality of movement, but also great for challenging our current level of technique.

Interested in putting some strength and technique work into practice? Register for the Greenstone Dance Arts semi-regular newsletter. You’ll be rewarded right away, with an exclusive video on improving Oblique Strength for Stronger Hipwork, and a mini lower body strengthening workout designed for belly dancers!

I spoke to Aziza of Montreal, an internationally reknowned dancer and superstar – and a huge inspiration to me as both a person and a dancer.  We chatted practice, consistency, stage presence, cycling and more!

Join us for online belly dance workshops and a hafla featuring Aziza of Montreal on February 5, 2022!

Watch the interview with Aziza on the Greenstone Belly Dance IGTV below!

I’ve adored Aziza for a long time. Not only for her extremely elegant, poised technique, but also because she’s just a darn lovely person.

Aziza is a teacher who cares about you and your dance development.

She’s had a huge impact on my dance over the years, which is why I had to host her for our Online Workshops & Hafla this February 2022!

Join us for online belly dance workshops and a hafla featuring Aziza of Montreal on February 5, 2022!

YES! Recordings of the workshops will be available to stream for 2 weeks after the event.

Thrilled to be back on the Yallah Raqs podcast, this time talking about shimmies and strength! In this podcast episode, we discuss shimmies and the role strength plays when it comes to shaking those hips. There’s always something more to learn, layer, or experiment with when it comes to shimmies, so give it a listen. 🥰

Listen to the podcast here or click the image below.

Siobhan Camille chats all things shimmies on the Yallah Raqs Podcast!